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The Danger Of Unrealistic Romantic Expectations Part 2: Delusions

The Danger Of Unrealistic Romantic Expectations Part 2: Delusions

Noah Revoy

When I was originally titling this series I thought about calling it “The Danger of Romantic Delusions”. That title however was a bit off putting and the objective of a blog posts title is to get people to read the post.

My reluctance to use that title doesn't change the fact that the root cause of unrealistic romantic expectations is delusion. In fact romance itself is connected with an idealized, subjective, anti-rational and even delusional view of the world and sexual dynamics.

The Danger Of Unrealistic Romantic Expectations Part 1: Introduction

The Danger Of Unrealistic Romantic Expectations Part 1: Introduction

Noah Revoy

In the past our cultural understanding of love, romance and relationships was tightly governed by our family, society, law and the church. Everyone knew their roles and generally what to expect from marriage.

The 20th century saw the near total destruction of the roots and pillars of western society. We lost our clear understanding of the sexual market and received a fraudulent promise of happiness through sexual liberation, feminism and radical individualism. The result has been mass confusion and increasingly unrealistic expectations about relationships.

Raise Your SMV by Learning How to Negotiate Commitment in a Romantic Relationship [Activities]

Raise Your SMV by Learning How to Negotiate Commitment in a Romantic Relationship [Activities]

Noah Revoy
Activity

Google “fear of commitment” and you will get more than 32 millions hits, many of them with titles like the ones above. Are so many people really that afraid of commitment?

Most people are not truly afraid of commitment, rather they are commitment illiterate. They don't understand what commitment means and how to negotiate mutually beneficial arrangements. The result is a fear and distrust of the unknown, rather than a fear of the commitment itself. 

Men, take charge of your romantic relationships [Video]

Men, take charge of your romantic relationships [Video]

Noah Revoy
Videos

Men, if you want to find a quality, K-selected, traditional woman you will need to be worthy. That all starts with you taking charge of yourself and your romantic relationships. Get out there and ask her to be your girlfriend (followed by asking her to be your wife if everything works out). Make it happen, she's waiting for you to ask.

Come join our K-selected, red pilled, rational community at SMV4K.com to get the help you need to find the romantic relationship you want.