Coaching

Find joy and satisfaction in creating the life you want

The best athletes, the most successful actors and the highest earning executives all have one thing in common: they hire coaches. A coach is for people who are looking to do things that they have not been able to do on their own.

My promise to you is this:

• I will show you what you cannot see alone.

• I will tell you what no one else would dare to say to you.

Specificallly, my coaching services for men and women will:

Encourage you to experience the joy of self improvement and dating. You should be having fun with your life, enjoying it. There is no need for constant suffering. Let me help you find peace and happiness while persuing a better life.

Give you a new set of perspectives. As an outside, impartial voice I can help you to see new possibilities and options.  Together we will critique your current plans and create better ones.

Help you build accountability. Having someone to talk to about your successes and progress will greatly increase your motivation and improve your follow through.

Normalize your situation. We need to know that we are normal, that our struggles, setbacks and progress are not disastrously dysfunctional.

Learn new habits. Success is born out of habits. I can teach you how to build a virtuous cycle of positive habits that will make improving your life easy and natural.

Someone who is 100% on your side. As your coach I will empathize with you, protect you and help you to see a bright and happy path to get what you want out of your life.

What my clients say

With a little help from Noah J Revoy, I got the commitment I want from a guy I really like! So now that I have a boyfriend and we're talking about marriage, I'm wondering what to do next. - RD

Thanks so much, Noah. You’ve already helped more than the 2 therapists I’ve spoken to in the past. - SM

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What to expect when being coached

We start with a question, or several questions. You can write them down in an email (recommended) or express them to me in a coaching session.

The process of thinking about a specific set of questions pertaining to your life is part of the coaching process. It helps you to think in a structured way about your challenges. Examples include:

• How do I help my boyfriend to make a real commitment to me?

• Where can I find a traditional woman?

• How to I avoid a bad romantic match?

• How can I motivate myself to do the things I know I need to do?

• Should I move/change jobs/get new friends to help me find someone?

• I'm always exhausted, how do I get energy for self improvement and dating?

We then start weekly or biweekly coaching sessions delivered by Skype or Google Hangouts. In each session we will discuss your progress, your goals, your strategies and plans. 

Depending on your needs you may fill out a Spouse Persona form or another self assessment package. Together we will come up with a winning strategy to help you build the life you want.

If you are here to find a spouse you will build your social network and figure out where you can find like minded people. I will help you to filter out unsuitable mates from the pool of potential matches. 

When you meet someone I will protect you by providing an unbiased perspective of them and your relationship. Helping you to make it work or to break it off as needed.

If you are here to make another type of self improvement I will help you to make steady progress towards your goals while maintaining joyful motivation. Each coaching plan is tailored to the needs of the specific client.

It takes time

Changing your life and building a better future is not an instantaneous process. You will need to have patience and stick to it for at least 3 months to see a major difference.

The small investment in coaching, dating, building a social network, etc. will pay off in a lifetime of happiness, love, security and joy.

The measure of a man is not what he says he will do, but what he actually does. Be the man of action. Be the man (or woman) who does.